Stuck

And the hardest part was letting go, not taking part

Sometimes it's not the ups and downs of a situations that are overwhelming, but the CHANGE, even the change that might be for the better. You get used to something, you find it natural like it's the way it's supposed to be, you even overlook some outrageous downsides of the situation, finding some imaginary compensation, or just indulging yourself. Accepting it's not the hardest part.
I admire those who took the change within their stride and pushed the wheel forward when something didn't work anymore, whether that implied leaving their job, their country, their home, or someone dear.

Cause that's the hardest part

Coldplay - The hardest part